I pulled up to the front of the school and whipped into a parking spot right up front. I had gotten there early enough that I didn’t have to fight for a space, but I ended up with some time to kill before my daughter finished her rehearsals for the school musical.
On any other day, I would have rolled down the windows, turned off the engine, and spent my time scrolling page after page on Facebook or Pinterest.
On any other day, I would have sat there in the car until my daughter opened the car door and announced she was ready to go home.
But things had changed. Today was the first day of making a conscious effort to living simpler. I was making an attempt to live free of distractions, and limit my screen time. It was time to take the first step…
I turned off the car, got out, and walked to the front steps of the school where a group of students were waiting for their own mom-taxis to pick them up.
I stood there for a little while, just listening to the silly conversations and smiling inside, remembering when I was in middle school, and how much simpler life was back then. After several minutes, a teacher stepped out of the building to wait with the kids. Eventually, he noticed me and smiled a friendly smile before asking me who I was waiting for.
“Marley,” I said.
“Oh, Marley!” he said, with a smile. “I love her. If I could clone her and have a classroom full of Marleys, I would. She’s such a great kid.”
Ok, hello!? Any momma’s out there? Is that not the most awesome compliment a teacher can give you about your own flesh and blood??? Seriously? My heart was so full! I smiled a huge smile and genuinely thanked him, as we introduced ourselves and continued a brief conversation.
And you know what? The old me would have missed it.
The old me would have stayed in that car, browsing the latest pins or posting a useless Facebook status update to let everyone know, “Hey, I’m in carpool and it’s HOT out here today!” Thank you Captain Obvious…you live in Georgia. And it’s May!
But instead, I made the conscious decision to leave my phone in the car and wait for Marley outside the front doors of the school. This little gem of a compliment made it’s way from her teacher’s mouth straight into this proud momma’s heart. This first step in my effort to live my life simpler was the perfect reassurance that I needed to know that I made the right decision.*
From that day on, it became so much easier to put the phone down and take that first step into the unknown. There are blessings that abound when we look away from a screen and look up instead. Not five minutes after this little blessing from her teacher, my daughter gave me another little blessing that I would have missed had I stayed in the car – a big, fat hug from my preteen. Right there in front of God and everybody – friends and all. She wasn’t ashamed of her momma, she was happy to see me!